30DOT: Day 27

(27) What’s the best thing going for you right now?

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Friendships.

Right now they’re the best thing ever.

Making new friends: I’ve made a few new friends here and there. Mostly all on 20sb.net. Some in classes. Either way. They all make me feel fuzzy inside. From random emails or random texts, I cherish them all.

Rekindling old friendships: These are the hardest of all. But, I’m glad that even though some friends and I have lost touch for whatever reason, that we were able to pick up our friendship like if we had just said good night and it’s the next day.

Getting rid of toxic friends: I think one can only receive so many text asking what kind of coat you’re wearing, or what kind of shoes, or jeans you’re wearing a day without thinking someone is creepy. Sorry, we don’t need to match. But this isn’t the toxicity friendship. But, I think there are things you shouldn’t tell your friends… like “you’re mean, and you don’t deserve to be happy” or “I hope that your boyfriend cheats on you”. Those are just things you don’t do… no matter how angry your friend has made you. You just don’t.

There’s nothing like friends who enable you. You know, the type of friends who go out drinking with you after a class in which you had an exam that you know you failed. And then they share a BIG plate of bread pudding with you.

Thirty Days of Truth (1) Something you hate about yourself. (2)Something you love about yourself. (3) Something you have to forgive yourself for. (4) Something you have to forgive someone for. (5) Something you hope to do in your life. (6) Something you hope you never have to do. (7) Someone who has made your life worth living for. (8) Someone who made your life hell, or treated you like shit. (9) Someone you didn’t want to let go, but just drifted. (10) Someone you need to let go, or wish you didn’t know. (11) Something people seem to compliment you the most on. (12) Something you never get compliments on. (13) A band or artist that has gotten you through some tough ass days. (write a letter.) (14) A hero that has let you down. (letter) (15) Something or someone you couldn’t live without, because you’ve tried living without it. (16) Someone or something you definitely could live without. (17) A book you’ve read that changed your views on something. (18) Your views on gay marriage. (19) What do you think of religion? Or what do you think of politics? (20)views on drugs and alcohol. (21) Your best friend is in a car accident and you two got into a fight an hour before. What do you do? (22) Something you wish you hadn’t done in your life. (23) Something you wish you had done in your life. (24) Make a playlist to someone, and explain why you chose all the songs. (Just post the titles and artists and letter) (25) The reason you believe you’re still alive today. (26) Have you ever thought about giving up on life? If so, when and why? (27) What’s the best thing going for you right now? (28) What if you were pregnant or got someone pregnant, what would you do? (29) Something you hope to change about yourself. And why. (30) A letter to yourself, tell yourself EVERYTHING you love about yourself.