Break Ups:
My once best friend and I effectively ending our friendship because of something I said. It didn’t seem like a big deal to me, but to her, apparently it was. Not that I want people to tell me I’m right (but, yes, I do want this) what went down was really a one sided argument.
She, in the very recent past made a comment that she didn’t want a boyfriend at the moment because she just got out of a pretty serious relationship, and just wanted to have fun. According to her, she’s still young and pretty and deserves to have fun. Okay, understandable. I get it. I’ve been there. So far, we agree.
So she started juggling about 4 guys, and then couldn’t keep her stories straight with them. Seeing this and later being asked for my opinion on her situation, I said, “maybe spend less time with them, I mean, you said you didn’t want a relationship, but you have like 4 going on”. And that was the last thing I said to her.
Two days later, I get a text from her saying I’m a bitch. Whatever. I know I can be one. And it’s not the worst thing anyone has ever called me. So I let it go. The day after, I was told that I’m a very mean girl, and mean girls don’t deserve to be happy. This made me cry. I don’t think I’m mean. I think I’m pretty honest. But not mean. And even in one of my vlogs I had mentioned that it really hurts me when people say I’m mean, because I’m really not.
We still haven’t talked. And I don’t really expect to talk to her soon.
Make Ups:
Me and the boyfriend broke up (for a while anyway) a week after this. This time it was me having a one sided argument. I’m not even sure what led me to believe what I believed. I just felt shitty as it was, so I dug my hole even deeper.
We got back together.
Make Up Sex:
Quite possibly, just for this.
I’m beginning to think that make up sex is 1000000000000000000% than just regular “I’m horny” sex. Which, in it’s defense, is really good. There’s something about make up sex though… maybe you try a little harder to please the other person. Or maybe you were scared that the last time you had sexy time with your significant other you didn’t really make it count, so you’re making up for that.
I’m really now in favor of starting fights for no reason. I just don’t have that kind of drive.
15 March, 2011
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6 comments:
I think break up sex is hte best.
It's the last night, you're both agreeing to break up, and you decide to have one last romp before you call it quits.
It's obnoxious, disgusting and you do all the things you respected the other person too much to do.
Which is good, because you almost can't look them in the eyes the morning after.
Make up sex is the best. It's great on both a physical and an emotional level. I love it. I worship it. I might start a fight just to have some.
You didn't say anything wrong, especially when she ASKED for your advice. You're not a mean person for expressing your opinion. And she sucks anyway for taking what you said in the complete wrong way.
Trout slap her!!!
It sucks for friendships to end, especially like that. But, honestly, you weren't in the wrong. Not that being right makes it all better, but maybe it takes the edge off.
Or maybe you should just have more makeup sex with your boyfriend. That ought to take it off real nicely.
I dont even think what you said was that harsh, i mean...you were just being honest & that's what friends are for right?!
To this day...the best sex i've had has been through break up sex.
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